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Lots of guys would like to know the ins and outs of sending love messages to girls. Texting is fun, easy and addictive. It’s a good way to start a conversation without using any actual verbal speech. If you’re a guy who needs to brush up on his oral communication skills, then texting is the perfect way to entice that girl. There are a rhyme and rhythm to texting the right way to keep the communication flowing and of course, keep that female captivated.
Once you have fallen for that special girl and, before you meet her in person, you need to build a strong connection. Building on her trust through texting will show her that you are worthy, reliable and are committed to getting to know her. She will become more attracted to you and will eventually want to meet you in person. So, how do you do this? Below are a few tips on how to build that bond for a fun and intimate romance.
How to get her interested in texting
Once you obtain the phone number of that dreamy girl, it is obvious that you should keep her engaged in texting. To begin with, you have to leave her with a smile. For this to happen, you have to avoid texting her with boring stuff. Each and every text that you send should aim at making her grin, laugh or smirk.
Secondly, you have to keep your texts short. The longest message that you send, should be a maximum of three sentences. Your texts have to be short so as to allow you to communicate one idea. You just have to focus on one topic at a time.
Next, your texts should create a playful and flirtatious banter. By this, I mean that you should be as good-natured as you can while texting her. It is recommended that you reference conversations that you already had or jokes that you already made together. You should also focus your attention on something unique about her and ask her questions about that.
Finally, to keep her hooked into texting, be relentless, think of new things to text about. Through texting, you also get an easy start to begin flirting. You should tell her what you are thinking and ask her short questions so that you can be able to learn more about her. Moreover, you should let her know what you are doing in detail or at least what you would like to do with her.
Always remember that you should know when to respond. Never keep texting her if she has not yet responded to your last message. In between texts, you should wait for about the same amount of time she did. Of course, having made her interested in your texts, you have to come up with topics that are stimulating to her.
What to text her
There are many things you should have in your texts to keep her on her toes. You should challenge and tease her. Gently mock her about her characteristics but focus on her being finicky, mysterious, and dominant. Below are some examples of what to text her.
“Ok, let us pretend for a second that you are a guy and I am a hot girl like you. What would you do to try and pick me up?” this second example also works perfectly. It is obvious that she will truly tell you what she would do to pick you up. You then do on her exactly the way she said she would. Most definitely she will be falling for your approach as this is what she truly believes should be done by a guy.
These are two of a million texts that you can use when texting a girl to get her to fall for you. Another very essential point is knowing when to text her.
When to text her
Basically, you do not want to overwhelm a girl by texting her every day. But at the same time, you do not want to leave her weeks at a time without hearing from you. For this reason, you need to send her texts that have more substance to them. You should aim to have a quick text exchange maybe once every three days before you set up an actual date or eventually decide to meet up. However, you have to keep these texts quite brief since you do not want to destroy the mystery, but just want to keep her curious enough so that she does not cancel your date.
For most girls, the time to text them is preferably at night. If that sweetheart girl of yours finds comfort in texting even up to the wee hours of the night then you are good to go. You should start texting her in the evening all the way until she goes to bed. From there, you can continue with your conversation for as long as she is still awake.
It is very important to shun any types of communication, let that be texts or calls when you know that she is occupied or maybe having fun with her friends or relatives. The reason for this is that she should feel excitement while reading your texts. She should never feel bothered or forced to communicate with you. For your conversation to be healthy, it should happen at a time that is convenient for the both of you.
Another point to note is that you should pick up an appropriate time of the day when you two will converse. It is never a wise idea texting her all day long. You should find out about her routine and text her at a time that is convenient for her.. If you find that determining her routine is hard, you should just text her at different intervals. From there you can find out how quickly she responds back to you and how long her messages are. This usually happens after texting her for around a week.
Once you figure out the right times to text her, you can send her text messages daily at that specific time. This is really important because it will keep her expecting your messages. The fact that she will be anticipating your messages is another reason why she may develop a bond with you. Remember you need to give her a reason to keep on chatting with you. The only way to do so is by keeping a smile on her face
How to make her smile over texts
First, you have to tease her. You should never be afraid to poke fun at the girl that you are texting in a friendly and good-natured way. Playfully badgering a girl does two important things. First, it will make her laugh and second, it shows that you are a pushover. The act of lightly taunting her will show her that even those things that she is not good ( e.g.good at math or can’t run fast) at or will never have (e.g be tall or have blonde hair) be is still endearing and cute and that she is still special without this qualities/characteristics. This will make feel connected to you and can help build an affectionate kinship between the two of you.
Secondly, you should make fun of yourself. This is a sure fire way to make her smile over those texts that you are regularly sending to her.. This will get her laughing and feeling jovial. It will also show her that it is fine for her to let her guard down. Again this will make her feel more comfortable with you and in turn, she will become more attracted to you.
The next thing to do so as to make her smile is to guess her replies when she is responding back to you. Guessing her replies is a great way to spice up your texts to her. This will show her your amusing and unpredictable side. All girls like a guy that will keep them in suspense and they will enjoy the adventurous aspect of this.
Finally, you should employ role-playing while texting her. Role-playing provides a fun way to create a shared experience that will make her smile and make her feel more close to you. An example of a role play is pretending to be a hero saving the damsel in distress.
What you should avoid in your texts
Creating a good conversational hook is one of the most important steps of this texting game. Whenever you text her, you should assume that she is already doing something that is incredibly worthwhile and fun. This will drive you into sending a text that is interesting enough to have her devote her complete attention to texting you. You should imagine yourself on the receiving end and ask yourself if you would feel happy, excited and curious to receive the message that you are about to send her. If you get a no as the answer, then you have to reconsider that message.
Being too eager is the greatest mistake that guys make while texting girls. The noteworthy thing with texting a girl is that you can appear overly ambitious without even realizing it. Focus on asking her short questions that require one-word answers and vice versa.
If you text the girl too much, at first you will find that you have a great conversation but over time, she will become unresponsive and unfriendly. Basically, she got bored and is no longer as interested in you. However, when you respond to her you can take your time in doing so. When you give a late reply though, you should never give an excuse for the late reply. This keeps her guessing and hence interested.
There will be times when a girl may abruptly not reply back to you or have deleted you from her phone list for no logical reason at all. Or there could be times when she is having a bad day and ends up replying to you unusually late. Always maintain a calm and relaxed attitude in situations like this. If she does not reply to a question that you asked her, don’t make the mistake of bringing it up the next time you text her. Just carry on with the text in a normal manner and then introduce a new topic of conversation.
Love Messages Summary
Overall, girls are attracted to guys who are caring, respectful, open and are a bit of a mystery. Let that girl know that she has made a positive impact on you and that she is consistently on your mind. Using the techniques above, you should keep asking her about her life, goals, and ambitions so that you can find your common similarities and differences. Finally, you should always match the girl’s texting vibe. If she never uses a lot of emotions in her texts, you shouldn’t either If you follow these methods, then you are sure to keep the girl captivated, in awe and most of all develop a solid friendship.